Archive for February, 2009


The Human Heart

The heart is physically in the center of our bodies.  It is the first organ that develops in the human fetes.  We can’t exist without the functioning of the heart.  Without the circulation and beating of the heart, we would no longer be alive. The heart is the only organ that, when it was first formed, was completely autonomous; it functioned all on its own.

The heart is the central aspect of all human beings.  In particular, the heart is the source of the fundamental impulse for relatedness.  It is what motivates us to yearn for the joy of loving and being loved and the satisfaction of valuing and being valued.  Love and relatedness describe the human need no less strongly than that of food and shelter.  In fact, we have given up our food and shelter for the sake of our love for another.

The heart holds our life force.  It contains our love, our creativity, our virtues, and our humanity.  The heart has its own memories, and our feelings of gratitude, love, and forgiveness.   If our hearts are this central in our lives, shouldn’t it always be in the front and center of all of our thoughts and actions?   Let us take a moment out of our busy lives, close our eyes, feel the beating of our hearts and fully appreciate this gift of life.

As we face the turbulent economic waters that may be ahead of us, let us take time to honor those we love and bring our hearts into all that we do.   Our hearts and our love can never be taken away from us and this is the most powerful force that we hold.

The Gift of Time Is a Gift of Love

How much time do we spend with those we love and care about?   Have our lives become so busy that we are often too tired at the end of the day to spend quality time with those we love?   When was the last time we played a game or listened to music and talked or even sat there in silence?   When was the last time we tucked our children into bed reading a book?

When the weekends come, we usually spend at least one full day cleaning and preparing for work the following week and then the rest of the weekend seems to fly by.  Maybe during one of those days, at least once a month, we could take a walk in the park or on the beach, have a picnic, play with a ball, etc. etc.   Build a treasure chest full of memories that remain long after the day is over.

The good news is that most of these activities cost very little money and bring far greater joy into our lives.  There is also something so relaxing and peaceful about being in nature.  It truly connects us to our hearts.

Give the gift of time to those you love and watch your treasures overflow with abundance.

“Warm Money”

Money is a neutral energy that fuels the world.  Any significance beyond this is what we as individuals or as a society give to it, such as fear, anger etc.  We could instead give it our love, and our gratitude, which are attributes found in the heart.

Several years ago, my husband and I were caught up in the negativity of paying bills as if they were out of our control. “Look how high this bill is?”  “Who made these charges on the credit card?”  Etc. etc.

After one of these eventful evenings, I went for a walk in the woods and suddenly realized that what we were doing made absolutely no sense.   Every bill that we had received was a direct exchange of someones gift of their goods or service to us.  In fact, often it took many people to provide even one of these exchanges.  If we were unhappy about a certain bill, then we could re-examine the need for this gift, which we had already received.  Maybe we could elect not to purchase this item again.

I decided to go home and, with my husband, re-evaluate all of these bills with a sense of gratitude toward all of those people responsible for sharing their gifts with us.   To begin the process, we felt gratitude for those that paid for our services and provided the money for us to pay these bills.

We then analyzed each of the expenses and decided whether we wished to have these gifts in the future.  We further decided to use a debit card rather than a credit card, which made it easier for us to prioritize our expenses and spend our money on those things we truly valued.  We paid our bills with a new appreciation and gratitude.  We were grateful for the roof over our heads, the warmth of the heat, the lights in our home and the easy access to water.  In many parts of the world, these are luxuries.

Many women in Africa carry their money in their clothing, right next to their hearts and hold it with love.  They call it, “warm money”.  We can all do this with our money.  Spend our money on those things we truly value and spend it with the love and appreciation for all of those people that provided the gifts of their goods or services for our comfort and needs.  Let all of our money be “warm money”.

When Did We Take the Heart Away From Money?

We began as a community, all of us banning together for our own survival.  Within this community system was a strong network of individual relationships.  We each had our own gifts, which we used to produce our goods and services.   We freely exchanged these gifts with each other in our community structure.  (As a  human species, we are meant to exist in relationships with one another and our survival still depends on this.)

As populations grew, the exchange of our goods and services soon became too difficult to manage;  therefore, market places were developed in the center of towns.  This enabled us to go to one location to exchange the gifts of our talents and labor.   For example, I could gift you a hand crafted blanket and you could repair my wagon.

As societies became larger, even this became a cumbersome way to exchange the gifts of our goods and services.  For example, I wanted to exchange an animal for many smaller items from different people.  Since I could not divide the animal, I was limited to finding someone who had something I needed that had equal value.

This finally led to a substitute for the direct gifting of our goods and services.  One common substitute for this exchange was gold, which was later used in the form of coins.  Our goods and services were assigned a value on a gold standard and it was used to sell and purchase what we needed.  These gold coins later became paper money backed by gold, until finally just the paper money itself was used, and now we mostly exchange our goods and services through electronic transfer.

We are a long way from the original purpose of money, which was a means of sharing our gifts of goods and services with each other.  Money has taken on a life of its own and has often been used as a means of massive greed and corruption.  We have created an illusion around money and forgotten its original purpose.  Money is not separate from us, but is in fact dependent on our ability to produce goods and services.

Money represents us as a society.   How are we earning our money?  How are we spending it?   From where does it come?   When I receive a paycheck from my school district, it represents the gifts of the goods and services that many thousands of individual people have made and paid for in the form of taxes and I offer the exchange of my services to their schools.   When I spend the money, I am receiving the gifts of other individuals and so on.   All of the companies that receive my business are there because of the gifts of many people.

The credit industry has further complicated the original roots of money because it no longer represents our current gifts of goods and services but rather a promise of these gifts in the future, which ultimately will have to be paid.  We have become numb and dizzy with all of the zeros added to the credit system of money as it occurs today, but in spite of this, we can each make the commitment to bring the heart energy back into the money that we do control.   Let us reflect on the money that goes in and out of our lives and be grateful to all those individuals that have made this exchange possible.

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